dating advice…………….?

Question by nomore804: dating advice…………….?
Ill start by saying for the past 2 years iv dated 2 guys…the first started off amazing and we always spent time together and talked and communicated but it ended so fast i didn’t even see it coming or why it came..he told me it was bc he wasn’t ready for something serious but in the beginning he did and all of a sudden changed his mind so it ended..that was the first guy a year ago..the next guy this past year started off great too ..we told each other we loved each other and spent lots of time together but out of no where things went down hill…he stated getting distant and wanting to go out a lot with out me…so it ended….well both the relationships ended with them both hoking up with whom used to be my best friend..idk if im being to easy with people..letting them walk on me..i thought you were supposed to be kind to people..im starting to wonder if i should be nice to the guys i date anymore and maybe they will stick around lol i have no idea..im looking for help full advice on dating for women bc obvly im doing something wrong…i just started dating someone 2 weeks ago and even though its early,once again things are great but im worried that the same pattern will come sneaking up on me..someone please help i need advice on what i should be doing..thank you

Best answer:

Answer by Yellowstonedogs
Hon, I feel for you and really wish I had the answer for you.
Every man is different, as is each relationship.

I do not recommend changing your personality in order to keep a guy.
I firmly believe there is a right person out there for most of us, someone we can just be ourselves with and IT’S enough!

I might suggest you try not to get in too deep emotionally early in the relationship.
Don’t look at every guy like he’s the one!
Just enjoy each others company and get to know each other really well first.
Date lot’s of men and remember you are interviewing them too!

Good luck honey, remember, this one may not be THE one either but he just might be too!

Oh and you have crappy girlfriends.

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