I need some advice on dating, women only please?
Question by Mr. Owl: I need some advice on dating, women only please?
Hi,
There’s this lady I’m going to meet. We’ll perhaps go to a restaurant, walk around the city later on.. I’d like to bring her flowers but I’m afraid she wouldn’t be happy to carry them all the evening. I know she loves silver jewelry so I’ve been thinking about a necklace but I’m not sure it’s OK for the first date..
she’s 19 if it helps
What do you suggest?
thanks for helping,
have a nice time
Best answer:
Answer by UNapologetic!
Jewelry first date, lol, you’re crazy, than she’s only going to expect more. If you gave her jewelry on the first date, what would you give on the second?
Buy her flowers, buy them in a vase, they can be in water, in the car while you walk.
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SVGirl says:
Jewelery is too much for the first date. Don’t buy her a bouquet if you are going to be walking around…but?…a single rose or carnation is nice…and much easier to carry.
Go with a single flower. That’s perfect!
Have a good time!
raynao2 says:
stick with flowers,but find out what she likes. Jewelry is too much too soon!! Don’t scare her off. Plus if you do give it to her she will propbaly assume that you will get her something everytime you see her. Have her like you for you!
omgitsashley26 says:
havent u ever been on a date before!?!?!?!?!
duh we like presents
pumpkin says:
No gifts on the first date hun. It makes you look waaayyy too needy & like you are trying to buy her affection/time/attention.
Wait till you get to know her quite a bit better before the flowers & gifts thing, please. Take your time – don’t rush your fences – when the time is right, you’ll know. Good luck & have fun.
travelinbianca16 says:
I think flowers would be better because a necklace seems like too much for a first date. You could always carry the flowers for her all night. Or you could get there for her at the end of the night to solve that issue.
_chooly_ says:
Personally, I would say no to the gift thing on a first date. Just bring yourself and be ready to have a great time without the props!
lonelykuroinu says:
If you are afraid that she wouldn’t want to carry flowers….um how about you stop off and buy her some after the date?
I think the necklace is a little much for the first date.
mml619 says:
no gift. its your first date?? no necklace. looks desperate. maybe one flower. a pretty rose or daisy…..something different.
Kineshia J says:
I believe you should give her the necklace. Dont be shy. If you shy it isnt getting you no were.
d3LiCioUsLy 3viL says:
u do not bring her jewelry on the first date. that’s too much … flower is the best …
have fun
Smithy14 says:
I’d be flattered if someone gave me jewelery on the first date but I’d also think it was kind of weird. How about you send her flowers the next day.
beth-y says:
get her flowers. then after your dinner just put them in her car or your car.. a necklace is kinda a serious thing. so dont do that b/c it might be akward..so nice flowers will do..or just one single rose would be even better. make it a nice color..anything but red.. like yellow or pink or..whatever colors they have. good luck. you’ll do fine sweetheart.. dont worry.
"karma" says:
Okay I think you should wait on the jewelry. You could bring her one red rose for now & then see what results from there. Key thing to your date is to treat her like she is a special woman. How would you like to be treated is how you should treat her.
sam a says:
Dont buy a girl a neckclace on a first day she might think you are moving to fast. thats a turn off you should not ber looking like you are buying her time or desperate
stephanie c says:
Not on the first date maybe after a month or so. I suggest get her chocolates or a teddy bear.
SxyPR says:
Definitely do not get a necklace. Not on a first date!!!! No way. That’s too much. You don’t have to bring flowers to her especially if you are walking around the city, etc. Just bring yourself and a smile. Hold the door for her, etc. Just do gentleman things. Trust me you don’t have to get her anything. If she is materialistic anyway you don’t want a girl like that. She should be able to like you based on your personality and body language!
BH says:
It’s a first date, gifts aren’t necessary…if you’d like to buy her a single flower as a token of affection or appreciation at the end of the date (to send her home with) that might be a nice gesture…
Flowers at the outset (if you are meeting somewhere) would indeed be awkward to tote around all evening…and jewelry for someone who is pretty much a stranger to you, is a bit overboard…
tc says:
If you are picking her up at her house she can put them in a vase before you leave. You’re right carrying them around all night is a pain. If you do want to bring her something else, the necklace is probably too much for a first date. A CD with music you both like would be less intense. Have fun!
luis says:
as long as you have mony you have the ball reling if you like her then you´ll have to keep conversating, remember you have money so youre a hunk but dont show it, as a matter of fact get her the neckless on youre second third date, as for flowers buy her something small like a rose
flower says:
Is there a flower shop in the area of the restaurant to act upon a gift, to stop by after dinner, swing near the flower shop, have her wait in the car, then come out with a bouquet, as a spontaneous gift. If the dinner doesn’t go well, do not go to the flower shop. Spice up your date!
ladydragondale says:
Why not just one long stem rose? That way it is not too much to carry around!
lucky c says:
wow. you are very gentlemanly. nice change. good luck. and no jewelry on the first date.
lacy_gllsp says:
get her one flower she should like that she could wear it in her hair if it is down she should like that i know that i would!
Love Lacy!
I hope that this will help!
harleygirlalley says:
Honey do not scare her away with materials things let her get to know you before you give her all this stuff, It is not what you can give her it is what inside of you. take that walk have a nice dinner leave the stuff at home for a later time.
darkvamp4542 says:
if ur picking her up it would be ok to give flowers and a neckless is to much for a date.
wilsonmj1123 says:
your first mistake is only asking women. you need a broad range of input if you are seriously asking for advice. mine? you don’t need gifts for a first date. you only need manners. open doors. make eye contact. let her talk. find common ground. and for heaven’s sake…clean the pipes before you go out. you don’t want to be thinking about sex the whole time.
tinkerbell says:
A NECKLACE IS NICE, BUT IT’S A LITTLE TO FORWARD FOR A FIRST DATE., UNLESS YOU HAVE KNOWN HER FOR QUITE SOME TIME. GIVE HER THE FLOWERS AND LEAVE THEM IN THE CAR. YOU MIGHT SCARE HER WITH A SILVER NECKLACE, BUT IT’S A BEAUTIFUL THOUGHT. IF YOU GO OUT AGAIN, GIVE HER THE NECKLACE. YOU SOUND LIKE A WONDERFUL GUY, THEIRS NOT MANY OF YOU AROUND, HAVE FUN ON YOUR DATE.
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clueless_idiot says:
dont do a necklace, when u buy woman jewery u have to pick the right thing. and it can be very expensive; plus thats more of a serious relationship type present. for ur first date, i think the best thing for u to bring her is a single flower, like a white rose or another type of pretty flower. that way it’s not too expensive and i find it to be really sweet and charming
that_guy_drew says:
i know you say “women only”, but listen… DON’T buy her jewelry for the first date. DO NOT. i can’t stress that enough. go to a gas station and buy her a flower. one. if you want to do more, hide it in her pocket if you can. then later tell her she may want to check her pockets. do something kinda clever like that IF you really really like her. if the simple gesture is not enough, forget her. if you buy her jewelry, or a boucquet of flowers, she may think you’re coming on too strong. or you’ll make yourself her sugar daddy, and it will be your fault when she uses you for money. these “women only” may think it’s real sweet what you want to do, and they may be right, but you’d better be careful. put your toes in the water and see how warm it is before you dive in. get it?
Shorty Baby says:
Jewery is too much for a first date . Maybe buy her a single red rose and maybe a sweet card. I hope that everything works out for you good luck.